Wednesday, March 11, 2009
BROS BEFORE HOES??!!
So everyone knows how guys say “bros before hoes,” right??? Well, the question is should the same hold true for the women? I think yes! My best friend and I have this rule that we will not hook-up with a former lover of the other under any circumstances. Women must understand which is more important. Your close, like family close, friends will be there for you no matter what. That relationship is so much more important than any man. Trust me on this one. I just got out of this 3 ½ year relationship and I stopped hanging out with my friends as often to be with him. It wasn’t until I was out of the relationship that I was able to see what I had been doing. I had to apologize to my friends for my stupidity!! I will not let that happen again. My girls are here for me for life and no man should and will not come between that!
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Listen....
I don't know how many girls have to get played how many times by how many guys before they find out that there is no way they're worthy of being valued above our friendships among ourselves!! Then again, I guess if I was as trifling as some women are, the ones who clearly ignore the rules about your girls' guys - past, present, & forseeable future - being off limits, I might be worried the rest of y'all are just like me, and it's only a matter of time. I have to say, I'm blessed to have GREAT girlfriends. My four best friends from high school and I are still tighter than anything, not even being spread across the world has changed our connection and loyalty to each other. I'd be hard pressed to put those friendships in jeopardy over some guy. Meanwhile, an *unmutual* friend (let's call her 'N') of one of those same best friends (let's call her 'J'), watched her struggle in an unstable relationship with this guy 'R' for a couple years...only to end up going after him, and expecting to remain friends with J. How is N going to jeopardize a proper friendship for a guy she already knows to be an ass?? Here's another problem...we women are always on a salvation mission, thinking we can reform somebody...what's that they say about a leopard?? So, N is now carrying R's baby...while R continues to sleep around, driving his outside chick's vehicle...I wonder if she thinks it was worth it...
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Listen....
I don't know how many girls have to get played how many times by how many guys before they find out that there is no way they're worthy of being valued above our friendships among ourselves!! Then again, I guess if I was as trifling as some women are, the ones who clearly ignore the rules about your girls' guys - past, present, & forseeable future - being off limits, I might be worried the rest of y'all are just like me, and it's only a matter of time. I have to say, I'm blessed to have GREAT girlfriends. My four best friends from high school and I are still tighter than anything, not even being spread across the world has changed our connection and loyalty to each other. I'd be hard pressed to put those friendships in jeopardy over some guy. Meanwhile, an *unmutual* friend (let's call her 'N') of one of those same best friends (let's call her 'J'), watched her struggle in an unstable relationship with this guy 'R' for a couple years...only to end up going after him, and expecting to remain friends with J. How is N going to jeopardize a proper friendship for a guy she already knows to be an ass?? Here's another problem...we women are always on a salvation mission, thinking we can reform somebody...what's that they say about a leopard?? So, N is now carrying R's baby...while R continues to sleep around, driving his outside chick's vehicle...I wonder if she thinks it was worth it...
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